Divorce_essay

 Juan Jahcie E.

 

    Divorce is often seen as a last resort in the face of a failing marriage, but for many, including myself, it can be a necessary and positive decision. Having witnessed my own parents go through a separation, I have come to understand that while divorce is painful, it can be the healthiest option for all parties involved. Far from being a sign of failure, divorce can be a courageous choice that allows individuals to reclaim their happiness, find peace, and ultimately build healthier lives.

One of the main reasons I support divorce is the emotional paint that a toxic or dysfunctional marriage can have on everyone involved. Growing up in a household where my parents were unhappy and frequently argued, I saw firsthand how their constant tension affected not only their well-being but also mine. Children are incredibly perceptive, and witnessing unresolved conflict day after day can lead to feelings of anxiety, insecurity, and emotional distress. In such an environment, it becomes nearly impossible for anyone to thrive. As much as I want our family to stick together, the healthier choice is for them to go different paths. Although they have separated long ago, I strongly believe that they wanted to be legally annulled but due to financial issues it wont be possible.  However, this doesnt change my opinion that divorce should be legalize because it allows individuals to grow and rediscover themselves. In the case of my parents, their separation ultimately gave them the space to work on their personal happiness. They may not get separated legally, Both were able to pursue new opportunities, focus on their well-being, and find healthier relationships, whether with new partners or within themselves. Ofcourse the pain will always be in our hearts but the thought that they are both happy, will atleast give me peace.  The idea that staying in a marriage for the sake of tradition or societal expectations often traps people in unfulfilled lives. Those who has money to get a divorce, can give them path toward their personal transformations, where both parties are given a chance to move forward and build a life that is better suited to their individual needs.

Another critical reason I support divorce is that it allows for the possibility of healthier future relationships. When two people stay in a destructive relationship for too long, they often bring unresolved issues into future relationships. It also affects people around them, such as friends and their childrens, However, through the process of divorce, individuals are forced to confront their own problems, reflect on what went wrong, and learn valuable lessons. This can lead to personal growth and a better understanding of what they need in future partnerships. For my parents, their separation eventually allowed them to form healthier relationships with new people. It gave them a chance to understand their own shortcomings, work through their personal issues, and approach relationships in a more positive and mature way.

While divorce is undoubtedly difficult and often painful, I believe that it should not be seen as a negative or shameful choice. In some situations, it is the best decision for everyone involved, especially when it leads to personal growth, happiness, and the chance for new beginnings. My parents’ separation, though challenging and painful at the time, has shown me that divorce can be an opportunity for a better future, one where everyone has the chance to heal and find happiness on their own terms. In the end, the pain of a divorce can be temporary, but the peace and opportunities it opens up can last a lifetime